Do You Have a Fixed or Growth Mindset?

Do You Have a Fixed or Growth Mindset?

Mindset shifting is something I do every day for myself, my patients, and my coaching clients.

One of the basics of mindset work is first to understand what kind of mindset you operate under. In her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, Carol Dweck, Ph.D. introduces us to the concept of Fixed versus Growth Mindsets.

 

A Fixed Mindset is when you believe your qualities are carved in stone. You might believe you have a certain amount of intelligence, a certain personality, and a certain character. Those in a Fixed Mindset tend to focus on proving themselves, on proving that what is certain about them is actually the concrete and only truth.

They are constantly evaluating themselves with questions like,

“Will I succeed or fail?”

“Will I look smart or dumb?

“Will I be accepted or rejected?”

Fixed Mindset people tend to play it safe, not taking risks for fear of failure or embarrassment.

 

On the opposite side, is the Growth Mindset.

When you operate under a Growth Mindset, you believe that your basic qualities are the things that you can cultivate through your efforts, your strategies, and from getting help from others.

You believe you can change and grow through application and experience. Growth Mindset people are willing to take risks and make mistakes, because they know whatever happens will present them with an opportunity to learn and grow.

They ask very different questions such as,

“Why waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better?”

“Why hide deficiencies instead of overcoming them?”

“Why seek out the tried and true, instead of experiences that will stretch you?”

Growth Mindset people allow for what is possible and know that a person’s true potential is unknown. They go for it anyway!

 

So, what type of mindset is the basis for how you operate in the world?

Do you believe that you are “just how you are” and that things “are just this way”?

Or, do you believe things can be different for you?

Do you believe that with the right tools and support, you could change yourself and the course of your life?

 

What could be possible for you if you had a different mindset?

 

It’s honestly not that hard to shift your mindset. Once you establish a few new habits and routines and gain a deeper understanding of what mindset it most optimal for you, you can more easily reach your goals and intentions.

If you’re ready to moved from a fixed to growth mindset or you want to up level your current mindset practice, consider my Kick Start Your Mindset mini-course. Through 8 simple lessons, you’ll gain all the tools you need.

 

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

 

Herbal Gift Ideas

Herbal Gift Ideas

Many years ago, I was the herbalist at a garden & nature center. Every year I would lead a workshop on Herbal Gift Making. I was thinking about these fun and informative classes and thought I would share these ideas with you today.

These are perfect gifts for those on a budget or those who wish to give something more personal for the holidays.

 

Herbal Potpourri Sachet:

Use a small (3 in x 3 in or 4 in x 4 in) piece of cloth. Place your herb blend in the middle, tie tightly with a rubber band, and then cover the band with a pretty ribbon or twine. It will look something like this:

Possible herbs to include:

Lavender

Roses

Chamomile

Mint

Sage

Lemon Balm

Lemon Verbena

Rosemary

 

Herbal Vinegar

Use an attractive clear bottle (old wine bottles work great). Add sprigs of fresh herbs and a couple of garlic cloves. Fill with vinegar (white, white or red wine, cider or other) and close tightly. Herb vinegars can be used in salads, sauces, or marinades.

 

Possible herbs to include:

Rosemary

Basil

Sage

Oregano

Tarragon

Mint

Thyme

Dill

 

Look for jars like these:


 

Herbal Tea

Place your herb blend in a small mason or decorative jar, pack individual tea bags , or include a tea ball with the gift . Instructions with the gift would say something like this: “Add 1 tsp. herb mixture or one tea bag to cup. Pour boiling water over herbs, cover and let steep 10-15 minutes. Relax and enjoy!”

 

Herbs to consider in a blend of your choice:

 

Relaxing Blend:

Lavender

Chamomile

Roses

Passion Flower

Blue Vervain

Catnip

Skullcap

 

Tummy Blend:

Mint

Sage

Chamomile

Fennel

Ginger

Licorice

 

Holiday Blend:

Cinnamon sticks

Peppermint

Ginger

Chicory

Clove

Nutmeg

 

It is fun and easy to make Herbal gifts.

If you don’t have time to make your own…

Buy Local!

Consider gifting a package of Flourish Tea (a mint & tulsi blend locally made in Portland).

 

Let me know if you’d like to pick some up. Packages are available in white and silver.